When we assign blame we are pointing the finger to who or what
is responsible for a fault or for a wrong doing. Let these blame quotes
give you words to think about when you are cirizing, condemn, or charging
someone with a wrong doing. We have all heard, don't blame others for
your unhappiness, or, don't blame others for your mistakes. Blaming does
not solve a problem it usually only makes people defensive.
"Focus on fixing the problem, never focus on the blame.
Problems are only resolved when solutions are sought."
"If you are looking to inspire people then blaming is the last thing you want to
do. To inspire others, focus your attention on the solution not the blame.
No good comes from blame, good comes from finding a way to correct the
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"Wherever you find a problem, you will usually find the finger-pointing
of blame. Society is addicted to playing the victim."
Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
"One of the most significant reasons why many people, especially those
who identify themselves as victims of
something or someone in their childhood, find it difficult to figure out a
solution for an immediate dilemma
is that they don't appreciate the specific effect of their early lives on
their current style of thinking and feeling."
Dr. Laura Schlessinger, Bad Childhood---Good Life
"We live in a culture of blame. People will blame anyone or anything for
their misery sooner than take the responsibility
to own it and make it better."
Dr. Henry Cloud; Dr. John Townsend, It's Not My Fault: The No-Excuse Plan for Overcoming Life's Obstacles
"To grow up is to stop putting blame on parents."
Maya Angelou, Becoming Myself: Reflections on Growing Up Female
"The blame game is a waste of time. Any time you're busy fixing blame,
you're wasting energy and not fixing the problem."
"Criticism is not a bad thing. It can help you strengthen your marriage,
if it is done correctly.
But, some wives criticize their partners to have a reason to blame
them or to justify their actions.
This type of criticism can affect the confidence and trust of your husband
Franchesca May, Marriage: Guide to been a good wife in the modern era
"When we blame, we give away our power."
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"Don't argue for other people's weaknesses. Don't argue for your own.
When you make a mistake, admit it, correct it, and learn from it- immediately."
"All blame is a waste of time.
No matter how much fault you find with another,
and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are
looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.
You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."
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"Blaming is a dead-end street that doesn't help anyone. But until we risk
telling the truth to ourselves about how we
really feel, nothing in our lives can change or improve."
Christiane Northrup, Mother Daughter Wisdom
"Don't make excuses - make good."
"When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce.
You look into the reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer,
or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.
Yet if we have problems with our friends or our family,
we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them,
they will grow well, like lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all,
nor does trying to persuade using reason and arguments.
That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument,
just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand,
you can love, and the situation will change."
Thich Nhat Hanh
"Blaming others is excusing yourself."
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"Everyone must take responsibility for themselves.
Blaming your problems on the world will get you nowhere."
Claire Shannon, Gratitude: Feel Grateful Today and Every Day
"It's always easy to blame someone else or outside forces for our actions . . .
Yet we don't have the right to blame other people or circumstances for our
"If you make a bad decision, you need to take responsibility. Keep your head
up, admit fault,
take the blame, and move on. The worst thing you can do is pass blame
on to your team for a poor decision
that you made."
David Miller, Young Boss: A Millennial's Guide To Leadership
"Praise loudly, blame softly."
"The misattribution of blame is one reason we make the same mistakes over
and over again. We learn so little from experience because we often blame
the wrong cause."
Joseph T. Hallinan, Why We Make Mistakes
"We're quick to blame ourselves for lack of progress, but slow to blame
our strategies. Then we repeat them over
and over again, trying to make them work. But here's the thing - if you fail
using a particular strategy more than
a few times, you need to try another one. It doesn't matter if it works for
everyone else if it doesn't work for you!"
Stephen Guise, Mini Habits: Smaller Habits, Bigger Results
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